Weddings

Getting Hitched...Highpoint Style


We are always excited about the opportunity to participate with you in preparing for marriage.  It is an honor to work with couples and help provide tools to have a God-honoring and healthy marriage. If you are getting married and would like a Highpoint minister to provide
pre-marriage coaching and/or perform your wedding ceremony please review the guidelines below.


Guidelines:
  1. Highpoint Church ministers* request a four month minimum time period between the first session and the wedding date in order to have adequate premarital coaching and preparation time.  In cases where this is not available special arrangements can be made.
  2. Pre-marriage coaching is generally four one-hour sessions with the minister, as schedules allow.
  3. Highpoint Church ministers reserve the right to discontinue pre-marriage coaching and/or NOT officiate the wedding at any point if he determines the couple is not ready for marriage at that time.
  4. Highpoint ministers are NOT wedding planners/coordinators.
  5. The marriage ceremony must be God honoring with appropriate music and dress.
  6. Highpoint Church ministers reserve the option to decline attendance to the wedding rehearsal/rehearsal dinner.

Payment Guidelines:

  • Pre-Marital Coaching Fees:  Highpoint Church requires a fee of $100 per couple due at the first appointment. (Checks should be made out to Highpoint Church.  Online payment is preferred.)

    Couples getting married in Tennessee are eligible for a marriage license discount from the state of around $60 after the completion of 4 hours of pre-marriage coaching. Our ministers can provide the necessary documentation when needed. Please know that our sole purpose in providing pre-marriage coaching is to help couples start their marriage in a God-honoring and healthy way - not to provide a discount. If for any reason the 4-hour requirement is not met, Highpoint ministers are not obligated to sign off on the discount.

  • Minister Payment: An honorarium of $250 for the minister should be given directly to the minister at the last pre-marital appointment or at the wedding ceremony.
  • Minister Expenses: If the wedding takes place out of town, the couple is responsible for the minister’s travel expenses, lodging (if needed) and a $30 per diam for meals.  The minister reserves the right to make his own travel arrangements.

By submitting this form you are agreeing to all the terms listed above.  Thank you for including Highpoint Church in your wedding plans.  We pray that the process is helpful and your marriage is blessed. Please note that you are meeting with an ordained minister, not a licensed therapist.

If you have further questions please contact Rachel.Cuccias@highpointmemphis.com or call 762-0071.

First Name
Last Name
Email Address
Phone Number (Format: 999-999-9999)
Age
Address
City, State, Zip
Hometown
Occupation
Is this your first marriage? If not, please explain.
Name(s) and Age(s) of Children (if any)
Are you a member of Highpoint?
If yes, are you currently attending a Sunday School class?
If no, please list your church home
How long have you been attending your current church (HP or another)?
Name of Senior Pastor
Church Phone Number
Fiance's First Name
Fiance's Last Name
Fiance's Email
Fiance's Phone Number
Fiance's Age
Fiance's Address
Fiance's City, State & Zip
Fiance's Hometown
Fiance's Occupation
Is this your fiance's first marriage? If not, please explain.
Fiance's Name(s) and Age(s) of Children (if any)?
Is your fiance a member of Highpoint Church?
If yes, are they currently attending a Sunday School class?
If no, please list the name of your church home
How long has your fiance been attending his current church (HP or another)?
Name of Senior Pastor at fiance's church
Church Phone Number at fiance's church
How did you meet?
How long have you been dating?
Why do you want to get married?
Wedding Date
Wedding Ceremony Time
Wedding Location
Wedding Location Phone Number
Name of Wedding Coordinator
Phone Number of Wedding Coordinator
Email of Wedding Coordinator
Will additional ministers be participating in the wedding ceremony?
If yes, please list additional minister's name, email, phone and church name
Which of these best describes you?
Please select the Highpoint minister you prefer.
If other, who?
Why would you prefer this minister?
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Registration Payment

$100.00 per registrant